The pain that results from a split up is completely miserable. On a personal level, I have experienced a fair amount of pain due to split ups, and I truly would prefer a dangerous surgical procedure to feeling that way again. In a lot of cases where the pain is that intense, it's simply our body's way of letting us know that we want to get back together with our exes. This column is going to provide you with a bit of advice if you have been thinking about trying to persuade your ex boyfriend to return to you.
This may seem a little counter-intuitive and shocking, but the honest truth is that for most girls, the first thing you need to do is STOP whatever you're doing (or planning), slow your mind down, and assess the situation. Too many girls do and say desperate things after a break up that only serve to drive their boyfriend further away. It's obvious that you care deeply about your relationship; so don't do any further damage to your relationship.
When you captured your boyfriend's love the first time around, you showed yourself that you are a girl who is very attractive and alluring. You can capture it again. Always keep that in mind.
What I'm about to tell you now should make perfect sense, because you, as a female, have a keen sense of human emotion that us men can only envy.
When dealing with matters of the heart, such as your relationship, logic and reason take a backseat to emotion and feeling! In other words, you should not be actually trying to "convince" your boyfriend of anything. He broke up with you for EMOTIONAL reasons. You need to change his MOOD... how he FEELS about you... not his mind!
Your ex might even be stating the intellectual facts about why he can't stay with you, but after all is said and done, he is just as controlled by his feelings as is everyone else. Our logical excuses typically arise as a way to make our feelings valid. So, your ex boyfriend's actions are likely to be baffling to you at this time.
If so, what should you do that will put the odds of getting your boyfriend back in your favor? You should uncover the true reasons that cause a male to seek out a particular female, then employ your knowledge to gain an advantage over your ex.
Luckily, you already have it in you to cause your boyfriend to feel strong emotions that make him want to be with you. Remember, you were the one who he chose at one place and time! All you need is a strategy that you can put to use that will take advantage of the feminine qualities you already have to cause your boyfriend to treasure you like he did in the beginning of your relationship. - 31989
This may seem a little counter-intuitive and shocking, but the honest truth is that for most girls, the first thing you need to do is STOP whatever you're doing (or planning), slow your mind down, and assess the situation. Too many girls do and say desperate things after a break up that only serve to drive their boyfriend further away. It's obvious that you care deeply about your relationship; so don't do any further damage to your relationship.
When you captured your boyfriend's love the first time around, you showed yourself that you are a girl who is very attractive and alluring. You can capture it again. Always keep that in mind.
What I'm about to tell you now should make perfect sense, because you, as a female, have a keen sense of human emotion that us men can only envy.
When dealing with matters of the heart, such as your relationship, logic and reason take a backseat to emotion and feeling! In other words, you should not be actually trying to "convince" your boyfriend of anything. He broke up with you for EMOTIONAL reasons. You need to change his MOOD... how he FEELS about you... not his mind!
Your ex might even be stating the intellectual facts about why he can't stay with you, but after all is said and done, he is just as controlled by his feelings as is everyone else. Our logical excuses typically arise as a way to make our feelings valid. So, your ex boyfriend's actions are likely to be baffling to you at this time.
If so, what should you do that will put the odds of getting your boyfriend back in your favor? You should uncover the true reasons that cause a male to seek out a particular female, then employ your knowledge to gain an advantage over your ex.
Luckily, you already have it in you to cause your boyfriend to feel strong emotions that make him want to be with you. Remember, you were the one who he chose at one place and time! All you need is a strategy that you can put to use that will take advantage of the feminine qualities you already have to cause your boyfriend to treasure you like he did in the beginning of your relationship. - 31989
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